My mom yelled at me, hit me, and threatened me over breaking a lamp?

Okay, I'm 14 years old throughout my entire life (from 8-present) she has been verbally abusing me. When I was 8 and I would do something bad, she would get like a stick and hit me with it and I would cry and then she would hit me if I cried. Now, I accidentally threw a pillow and it hit the lamp and it fell. When she came home I was like "It was an accident" and then she snapped and she was like OH DONT TELL ME IT WAS AN ACCIDENT and she went inside and got a plastic coat hanger and went back out and i was still sitting in my computer chair. but i'm used to the pain after 6 years of it so the entire time she was screaming and hitting me with it i was trying not to cry because it usually pisses her off and she hit me so many times and got so mad that eventually a piece of the hanger broke and she kept hitting me with it. but i kept my face straight and then she told me to go inside and pick up the pieces so i was about to crack and then while im picking up the pieces she smacks my head hard and THATS when i start crying because i was like an inch away the gl. and she was getting a vacuum cleaner and she was like raising it and she was like dont think i wont then i went inside my room and cried and she just took a shower like nothing happened. when my sister came home though i told her and my mom was outside. and then after i was done my mom came in and started screaming saying what was she doing wrong and i was saying she had anger management and this is child abuse and i told her about the vacuum cleaner and threatening me and shes like WHEN DID I SAY THAT STOP MAKING THINGS UP and she was like if i didnt hit u would u stop doing it (cuz i throw the pillows alot for some reason) and then i was like which is more important your kid or a lamp?! and she kept going on and on about how it was so much money and how i broke alarm clocks and then i was like crying again and i was like you know what i dont care....i dont care and she was like i dont care either and went up the stiars. my question is is there anything i could do (anything i can tell her to stop because she obviously thinks this is normal because shes asian and apparently asian parents hit their childs if they misbehave) please anything other than calling or telling someone because i dont think its that bad and my dad and grandparents and sister all know about this they feel bad for me but they dont do anything so please tell me something i can say to her